there's been a feeding frenzy in the media recently
about the potential dangers of social networking and
blog sites like Xanga,
Facebook and LiveJournal. However,
one site in particular seems to be getting piled on
for its potential threat to today's youth: MySpace.
I've
been meaning to blog about this for a while, so my collection of news
articles with alarmist headlines like "Teens
find fun, trouble on MySpace.com" has grown uncomfortably
large, as will this entry. You are warned.
Now, I've
blogged before about the perils of revealing too
much personal information in your public blog. It's a valid
concern, and while it happens
to us old folks, teens seem especially
keen on blabbing
too much online.
They say outrageous things
online (some of which may actually be true), not fully
realizing or caring that their blog will eventually
get read by people whom they don't want reading
it, such as their mom, boss, judge, parole officer, college
admissions officer, future
employer, the police, etc.
This is
especially important to remember if one blogs about
illegal activities, such as being
a minor in possession of handguns, or posting photos of
underage crunkage or other probation
violations.
Maybe it's because all
teenagers are naturally invulnerable and immortal, or maybe it's
because they just haven't been burned yet -- I
particularly liked one quote in this article about mom
finding out about MySpace:
"It's theYou
Internet," said Sonia, 15, a Palo Alto High School sophomore. "I think
you should be able to write whatever you want."
would think a 15-year-old would have heard "Life isn't fair" about a
billion times by now.
Anyway,
part of the problem here is that what you post on the Internet never
really goes away -- it gets cached, copied, spidered or saved by
someone, somewhere, and these things have a funny way of coming back to
haunt you.
So, there is a legitimate concern out
there. I'm not even taking into account the ever-looming threat of the
stereotypical creepy old guy sexual
predator stalking minors.
But why pick on
MySpace? When it comes to social networking, MySpace is the top dog out
there, by a long shot, and it's still growing
like crazy. (This
just in: All of the American Idol finalists are going to have
MySpace pages.)
This makes the pundits go
wild, because on the one hand, they can ask, Can
MySpace Be Beaten?, and on the other hand, they can ask Is
MySpace All That?
Yes, some say, MySpace
will take over the blogosphere. No, others say, it
won't.
Looked at another way, is this
backlash
against MySpace just because everyone else is jealous of
their success? Are people just hatin' on MySpace, as they say?
Personally, I know I'd like to have their
traffic.
Having been around the block a few times, I
can remember when all
this "we have to do something to protect the children from the
Internet!" was focused at
those new-fangled chat rooms. So it's kind of
interesting to see someone else in the hot seat.
In
an interesting talk last month, blogger and researcher danah
boyd presented her research on why kids love
MySpace (the actualtitle is much more academic:
"Identity Production in a Networked Culture: Why Youth Heart
MySpace").
She feels that part of reason
there's a media frenzy around MySpace is that it's just the latest in a
long string of moral panics that come with any major
cultural disruption, like rock 'n' roll, jazz and television (I would
add to the list the automobile, telephones and
hip-hop.)
Anyway, in a line of reasoning that seems
pretty hard to disagree with, she says that the reason why MySpace
(along with other social profile and blogging sites) is so popular with
young people is that it lets them engage in identity
production -- that is, they can make themselves, or "be
someone." Plus, it gives them a place to just hang out,
especially in a world where teens have less access to physical public
space.
If you like thinking about these things, you
should check
out the talk, which is pretty good, even if it is filled with
terms like friending, impression management and asynchronous
communication.
It's pretty apparent that MySpace is
here to stay (until the next big thing comes along -- does anyone
remember Friendster?). So what are
we supposed to do about all this? (Don't ask me, I just raise
questions, I don't answer them.)
Of course, you can
always go against the tide, become a refusenik and
reject
Facebook, MySpace, blogs, etc. Though that hardly seems like it's going
to catch on.
If you're a school, you're going to
have to evolve
your policies that deal with blogging and social networking.
Predictably, some are going to try cracking
down, though trying to ban things outright doesn't seem like
a success strategy in the making.
Just as
predictably, the
politicians are starting to get involved -- who knows what
will happen there?
In the meantime, teens
and bloggers of all ages should continue to watch
what they say online and try not to let out Too Much
Information. Parents should teach their kids will (they are, after all,
our future -- let them lead the way), then keep an eye on what they do online without going all crazy and control
freak-y (check out this MySpace
cheat sheet for parents).
I suppose that
this whole long piece was just an excuse for me to link to this Daily
Show bit on Social Networking, done last month by
correspondent Demetri
Martin, who of course, has a MySpace of his
own.
Thanks -- Joe
16 comments:
Dear Joe,
Yeah, I did a blog entry about this a month ago and some of the Jlanders voiced legitimate concerns and opinions:
http://journals.aol.com/lurkynat/Interface/entries/854/AddComment
there were a lot more comments so I posted another entry:
http://journals.aol.com/lurkynat/Interface/entries/855/AddComment
and Joe parents are genuinely concerned about a place where actual pimps, predators and whores have sought children for meetings and in some cases actually met up with them.
natalie
I have a MySpace page and I don't use it that much at all because I personally think there's too much offensive material being stored on MySpace pages. I've browsed around MySpace many times in the past and was shocked at the extensively filthy language and blatant nudity that are in some pictures and on people's pages. They say they don't allow that kind of material, but I don't think that rule is enforced that much..it's obvious by some of the stuff people put on their pages. Some people even have some of the harsher curse words in their display names, spelled right out with no asteriks or anything! It's certainly not a place I would want my daughters to hang out online when they become teenagers.
Having said that, I love the photo, Joe. Very cute! :-)
~ Susan
http://journals.aol.com/njmom72/InMyLife
Using MySpace is safer than going to the library or church.
as someone who works with teenagers, my myspace page has been a great tool for keeping in contact with them, checking in when they don't show up for events, and keeping them posted on what is coming up for them...
also, i hope that perhaps just by being present and aware of what things they are saying and doing i might be able to be more approachable with their real life problems.
my kids are for the most part pretty appropriate on myspace, but i do worry...i know firsthand that dumb things you post online as a younger person without thinking about the consequences NEVER go away...i would hate for them to have problems in the future for things they never thought through as teens.
great post...love the daily show clip and your picture!
rachael
http://rachaelanne21.blogspot.com
Hate to say, but there is another website similar to what people do on MYSPACE.COM, its called vampirefreaks.com
Did you know that there used to be codes you could put on myspace to record anyone looking at your page? You could tell who was on your page..what time they were there and where they came from (the referring url.) It also gave an isp number.....this sounds like a great idea to keep track of anyone that may be stalking a child doesn't it?
Well then why has myspace suddenly decided to take it away? They won't let the code work now because they insist it violates 'the privacy policy'.
Shouldn't parents have a right to know who is looking at their children's page?
And other sites like Friendster and Hi 5 have this installed right on your account!
With all this negative attention this site is getting, you would think they would be a little smarter about this.
Holly
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I've been on MySpace for a while now. I use it for it's intention, meeting people and getting the word out in promoting my job as a bartender/performer. I have noticed all the recent headlines, we had an incident in my area (Philadelphia) recently that featured kids on MySpace and it was all over the news. Oh well, it give them something to complain about until the next thing comes along.
There is a New Service Called TagWorld that is also now trying to compete with MySpace
hey, I have 2 myspaces lol. I have my personal one http://www.myspace.com/dragonrose637 and then I have my myspace help center http://www.myspace.com/fefehelp Just in case you need any help joe. :) Which I doubt u do, but some people do. :)
Felicia
since i dont have a "thingy" of my own, hers sum info 4 u-
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On the news i heard about this girl on myspace.com and a sexual predator saw her profile and everything she wrote on her profile was true. So the man went to go find her and she was taken by the man. My friend actually made up a fake name as kim and made up everything about-where she lived and everything. I think that everything that u wrote is true. I think the real reason ppl r on myspace is because they want to be someone and make these creepy friends because kids really want 2 be some1 on the internet. www.myspace.com/jamieleiss
I have to agree with ya on this one Joe. My 19 y/o daughter had Xanga for a couple years then she moved to Myspace. I created an account for myspace for myself ONLY to keep up with what is going on with my daughter. That's all I use it for. She is going to college 800 miles away. She doesn't know that I found her on Xanga and followed her to Myspace. Great pic of ya. Dana
Joe-
Hey for my space there is no such thing as bad press...
As far as the sexual preditor factor the the TMI online...If we are talking about teenagers it is the parents responsibility to monitor what their kids do online.
Dear Joe,
I have been thinking about MySpace today. his past weekend my cousin told me that her daughter has a private account and only those people she knows are allowed in. Her aunt checks on her and the computer is in plain view...
I do see, having talked ot many users of My Space, that for them it is a nice way to converse with their personal friends. Perhaps when onlya child's friends talk to your child and no personal information or party addresses are given out and the parent observes the teen it can be nice. I do like the idea that it can be a performance arena for young musicians. thank you Joe. natalie
Joe, you said it all and much better than I can and I present Internet Safety to parents. We don't want kids leaving the Internet. And MySpace is pretty cool. It has amazing web tools and is a great way to stay in touch with friends.
I think kids have a right to know what the consequences are when they blog, chat, post information and the only way to get the message out is through the schools. So we here in the Seattle metro area are teaching Internet Safety in schools and I go around and tell parents what is cool and what is not so cool.
Can I quote you at my next presentation 'cos what you said should be read by every student and every parent?
Cheers.
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